Des Moines Date

After religiously playing The Lumineers on Pandora Radio for the last 6 months, Dave booked us tickets to their show in Des Moines. Maggie was able to watch the kids, so the uphill battles of a overnight get-away were all conquered. We hit the road on Friday at 11, listened to the Lumineers the whole way there and arrived around 4pm. It's amazing how relaxing a road trip can be when the kids aren't along ;). We checked in to our hotel room, freshened up and went to dinner at Roca, a favorite place of mine from a previous girls trips. I had attempted to make a reservation earlier in the week with no success, so we took our chances on a bar spot. Fortunately, we lucked out. We shared small plates and enjoyed the hustle and bustle of the busy restaurant while sipping wine and beer. It was like the longer we sat there, the more we relaxed and soaked in each other's company. Home life is pretty monotonous, which isn't a bad thing, but its easy to get into a rut with schedules, kids, and maintaining the chaos. It is so good to be reminded of what makes us work as a couple.

The concert was amazing. Dave scored us front row seats which was a first for me. We drank wine while dancing and singing to the songs which so frequently fill our den in the evenings while cleaning up from the day's mess. It was so fun to unwind and take it all in. Thanks Dave, for purchasing those tickets, it was just what we needed xoxox.

The following morning, we slept in and hit the road with hopes of having time to catch a pizza at Zio's in Omaha, an old local favorite of mine from my college days. We arrived just in time for lunch and it was the perfect pit stop. After all of that wine the night before, a hot pizza was just what I needed. We arrived home around 4 and when we walked in, Sullivan's first question was if he could sleep over at the Oliver's again that night. So that basically sums up our 30 hour vacation.

The kids had a blast with the Oliver family, they basically just slipping in to their routine. Maggie had her hands full, but was in a good mood when we came home and said how nice it was to have her kids as big helpers for my three. There will definitely be more kids trades in our future, we just gotta get Isaac old enough to babysit ;). Big thanks to them for taking our kids on and giving us a completely worry free night away.

Old school GPS.

Pre dinner selfie (the first of many ;)).

Dinner. 

Preshow. 

The Lumineers. 

End of the show selfie. 

Zio's, foggy-day-after smiles. 

Meanwhile- post quiet time fun at the Oliver's. 

After school fun at Barnes and Noble.
(yes, Mag temporarily lost her mind)

Mag and the crew at B & N.

A Saturday morning fun run benefiting the SFCS. 

A baby girl cousin on each side.

We had been on baby watch for our niece, Lauren for a few weeks. She handled her last month of pregnancy with such grace. Patient and as excited as can be. I only sensed her readiness on her due date, 3/19, when we exchanged a few messages, it basically boiled down to the fact that her due date had come and gone with no excitement and that she would be going in the following day for an induction plan which she was hoping to avoid, that was at 9:30pm. Much to our surprise, we received a message at 9am the following morning informing us of Stella Lynn's arrival. Lauren's water had broke the previous night at 11:25, and Stella was born 8 hours later at 7:30am on 3/20, the first day of spring. She weighed in at 7lbs and 8oz and was 21 inches long. The initial photos were so incredible.
There is so much love for this sweet baby.

We were so excited to meet her the following evening. Lots of baby talk and baby cuddles. Lauren and Elliot are such naturals. Stella is so lucky to have them as parents. We can't wait to watch them all grow as a family. Sully and Greta (and Piper) are thrilled to have a new baby golden cousin (their nickname for Lauren is 'golden cousin').

Dave and Stella. 

Group photo with Stella. 

The Fey family.

Dave and I met some friends for trivia after our visit with Stella and much to my surprise, my brother called when we were out to let us know they would be expecting their baby sooner than anticipated. Shelley was actually due on 4/19, but due to some blood pressure issues, they would be starting her induction that evening.

The following day was full of family text messages from Sam with Shelley's progress and plan. After hours of labor and progress, Shelley delivered Sabrina Shirley Ann at 10:59pm on 3/22 weighing in at 5lbs 5oz and 19inches long. Shelley is an official rockstar for surviving what sounds like a miserable labor, I am so proud of her. Sabrina has the fullest head of dark hair I've ever seen. Fortunately, Shelley had stocked up on baby bows, I'm sure Sabrina will be wearing them in no time.

Dave and I went to meet Sabrina the following day and she is such a tiny bundle, and so perfect. It was incredible to hold that tiny little baby in my arms. Shelley dealt with some post pardum issues and was fortunately discharged today. We know Hudson will be an awesome big bro and a big help to Shelley. She is so loved. We are excited for all of them.

Sabrina xoxo. 

More baby snuggles. 

My twin is my win.

I have basically been stalking the Avera Twin Registry since the first of the year. We had initially been told our results from our twin study last summer would be available in the fall of 2016, and then early 2017. As the days in February ticked away, I checked the mail with high hopes in anticipation of the results letter. As the end of the month neared, I called to find out how things were coming and talked to the coordinator of the study. She said we should have the result within the month and then I explained to her that our birthday was coming up and would love to use the results some how to surprise Maggie at our birthday party. And then I waited again. Much to my delight, she called on Friday morning (3/3) and told me the results were at the front dest and I could come to pick them up anytime. I was so excited and felt like I was going to burst! But I couldn't call Maggie, my usual first phone call for these sorts of things, ugh!!

Dave and I devised a plan of putting balloons into a large balloon and having the color combos reveal the results. All white balloons meant we were identical, a combo of black and grey meant we were fraternal. Dave made the phone call to put in the balloon order so I could be surprised with Maggie, and then I waited again, for 48 more hours before finding out the results, no big deal ;).

So, the big questions:

"Do the results really matter?" I've been asked this numerous times. It seems like a logical question, but the answer is so complicated. No, the results don't really matter, but in the pit of my stomach, I sure hope we are identical. We are so close; our looks, personality, hearts, voices, and our taste in most things. We are just so similar. We are constantly in conversation. Wether it is via txt or a phone call if there is too much to txt. I'd be ok with fraternal, too, I don't have a choice. Would I be let down? Maybe. But it will still be fun to finally know.

"Is there even a question? You have to be identical!" This a really common one. Another version is, "you have to be, I'm 99.9% certain you are." That's exactly how I feel! But, we have never officially been told that we are, so that .1% poses a huge question, not necessarily in a bad way, it just keeps me guessing.

I've always been so proud of our story. My mom had pregnancy complications early in their marriage. My parents always planned on adopting, so they got that ball rolling, and started our family with Alex, Sam, and Liz.  And then the surprise twin pregnancy with two placentas vs one which is why her doctors determined we were fraternal. But our similarities were so uncanny which caused us to question that label. Now that's a good story! A unique story for a unique family. I have to give my efficient mom props. Five kids with one pregnancy, now that is one way to achieve the big family she always wanted.

So our story is changing a little bit, Ive already told some people the new version of our old story and the best part is that the new version is even cooler than the old (fore site not intended).

The results:

After a family bowling party we gathered at Maggie's for pizza and cake. I brought the balloon out and told Maggie what the balloon held. She was quiet, almost speechless, and the one in charge of popping the balloon. We did a quick survey of our family (we were happy to have 100% attendance, including my parents via FaceTime), and all of them thought that with no question, we were identical. It was finally time to pop!

Posing with the balloon. 

"One, two, THREE!"

The best photo! IDENTICAL! 

The aftermath.

A quick chat with our parents.
My mom's initial reaction "That was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen!"

And here is the live version: https://youtu.be/SATo6crSiGo

There you have it...identical! 

So, does it change things? I don't think so, but what it did for me was make me feel an even closer bond to Maggie. Kind of like our relationship was recharged. I read the letter the following morning and it states 'you and your twin are genetically the same.' Seriously, how amazing is that? Its no doubt we have our differences, but we are literally one egg that split. Oh, and not to mention our kids! They are genetically half siblings. How wild is that?

Maggie and I with our kids. 

More photo fun. 

Oh yes, the cake with 37 candles.
I can't think of a more special way to turn 37 on 3/7.

The official letters.

So there you have it. The story of our very own journey. Im so thankful to have Maggie as my best friend and to know she is literally my other half. 

The daily grind and 'An Enchanted Afternoon.'

We are well into March and Dave hasn't had any sort of vacation from work since January, so I've officially been the primary parent for the daily routines. Im happy to report that I've settled in quite well. Loading up all three is so much easier than it once was. I've even ventured out and taken the girls for hot chocolate and treats while Sully is in school (although that won't ever happen again, why must retailers put so many temptations on low shelves, grrr). Since I finally have some routines down, its no surprise that summer is just around the corner (and we cannot wait for warm weather, seriously).

We had an event on Sunday at the Washington Pavilion. It was 'An Enchanted Afternoon' which is 100% geared for kids, it is a fund raiser for the Community Learning Center, which is part of Sully's preschool program. It is so fun. The kids get to dress up and eat kid friendly food and play all sorts of games and activities. Maggie and Anna also joined us, which made the afternoon even more special. Every year gets easier and more fun as the kids are more independent and interested. Enjoy some photos below. 

Oh, also, TODAY is Maggie and my birthday. Stay tuned for a fun blog post of what I pulled off to make turning 37 on 3/7 super duper special.

Cake pops at 10am with wild hair. 

Greta gets a taste and falls in love. 

Bedtime giggles, and all three in jimmies. Major win these days. 

Super excited about our new costumes.

Bat Squad:
Bat Boy, Bat Girl and Bat Baby. 

Our late night sneak in snuggler.

This girl loves books, or 'bas' as she calls them.

Costumes, parties, and cotton candy. Major win. 

The crew. 

A sweet pic of Maggie and Anna. 

Twin pic fun.

Piper was obsessed with the backdrop. 

Family photo.